This weeks post is from about 4 years ago. I had just moved and was trying to meet people. I started talking to this guy and we seemed to hit it off. We decided to meet up for a movie, since he had just won two tickets the new Spiderman movie. We had a really good time and decided to meet up again shortly after. He was going to take me downtown to explore since I had never been. I met him and his roommate at his place and he drove us. He was buying us drinks left and right and we just kept hopping from bar to bar. Well we made our way to the gay bars and his roommate met up with a friend, so we decided to head home. I was feeling no pain. He picked up his car from the valet and turn the corner and there were lights and sirens behind us. He pulled over and the cop asked him to get out of the car. He told me he’d be right back, but I never saw him after that. I was too drunk to drive, so the officer had me call my sister to pick me up, keep in mind it was almost 2am. She wasn’t happy about it, but she picked me up.
The next day his roommate contacted me on Facebook asking if her roomie was with me. I told her what had happened. Apparently her purse was in his car which was now impounded and she had to break a window to get into their apartment. Overall what an amazing experience for only been being here a few weeks.
I started talking to 711 on Grindr a month or so ago and we seemed to hit it off. After a week or so we decided to meet for a drink. He was very new to the city and much younger than I am ( I do tend to date guys younger than me), so I did not really feel any spark, but he was cute. He said he wanted to meet up for dinner a few days later, which I cancelled due to feeling no spark. He really tried his hardest to intrigue me by saying things like, “I really saw something in you” and “I’m not trying to get in your pants, I’m really looking for a friend that could lead to more”. Well I fell for it and decided to meet him again. If he invited me over to “watch a movie”. It was late and I did not even feel like showering. I used the restroom and left after all he stated he was not the hook up kinda guy. He answered the door in his underwear and a t-shirt, I was instantly regretting coming over. Now don’t get me wrong I do not mind getting a little action every now and then, but this was not my intent this time. He led me to his room and handed me his tablet to pick a movie on Netflix. I picked one and we cuddled up to watch it. After 15 minutes we were making out. He was an ok kisser and he could’ve used some mouth wash, but I went with it. He started talking about taking things further to which I resisted. He seemed disappointed, but continued kissing me and proceeded to go down on me. It was at this point that he tried to finger me. Now remember I had just used the bathroom and I had not showered before I left. I immediately clenched and he removed his finger and then slid that hand down my face and kissed me. I froze in horror! He stopped kissing and asked if there was a problem. You think?? He told me I could wash my face and led me to the bathroom. I washed my face, gathered my clothes, and left. He begged me to stay, but I told him I had plans the next morning. Has this happened to anyone else??
I’m just your average gay guy who has had many experiences in online dating. I’ve had both good and bad experiences and then there are the very bad experiences. I usually tend to share these stories with friends and now decided to make this blog and post them here. Please feel free to comment and share your own experiences. I’ve used pretty much every dating app on the planet, but most of these stories come from using Grindr. To secure the identity of the guys in my posts, I will be using nicknames that I have come up with to identify them. I hope you all enjoy!!